Friday, 18 September 2009

Day 28: A Gift for the Eid

“O ye who believe! Give of the good things which you have (honorably) earned and of the fruits of the earth which We have produced for you and do not even aim at getting anything which is bad in order that out of it you may give away something when you yourselves would not receive it except with closed eyes. And know that Allah is free of all wants and worthy of all praise. The Evil One threatens you with poverty and bids you to conduct unseemly. Allah promises you His forgiveness and bounties and Allah cares for all and He knows all things. …And whatever you spend in charity or devotion be sure Allah knows it all. But the wrong-doers have no helpers. If you disclose (acts of) charity even so it is well but if you conceal them and make them reach those (really) in need that is best for you: it will remove from you some of your (stains of) evil. And Allah is well acquainted with what you do. … Whatever of good you give benefits your own souls and you shall only do so seeking the "Face" of Allah. Whatever good you give, shall be rendered back to you and you shall not be dealt with unjustly.” (Qur'an 2:267-272)


Let us make the Eid a real memorable day. How about some Eid (festival) gifts for all the children in the house or neighbourhood? This is indeed a great time for them to be rewarded for their Ramadan participation and support. It is also a good time to reward them for their studies and domestic contribution. We should make it a wholesome and weighty gift, a charitable act to look forward to every year. “The upper hand is better than the lower hand (i.e. he who gives in charity is better than him who takes it). One should start giving first to his dependents…” (Bukhari)

The Eid day is the day of happiness and efforts should be geared towards making it so. Even the Rasul allowed the children to sing and dance around his house. He told Abu Bakr not to caution them, because “It is the day of Eid –Celebration.” What arrangement can you make to make this Eid memorable for the kids around you? What entertainment do you have in stock for them?

Our spouses should also be generously rewarded. One way or another they must have made our Ramadan eventful. Perhaps it could be a motivation to do more next year. It could even be in form of a surprise between couples. It is a great day for the Muslim women. Such that the Prophet encouraged them to go for the Eid even if they are menstruating, they are encouraged to be there, to have fun and feel the celebration. Even if they have no dress, they should borrow some and have a happy outing. Umm Atiya narrated that, “We were ordered to bring out our menstruating women and the veiled virgin women into the gatherings of the two 'Eid festivals. These menstruating women were to keep away from their Musalla (prayer ground). A woman asked, "O Allah's Messenger, what about one who does not have a veil?" He (peace be upon him) said, "Let her share the veil of her companion."

We should also extend the gift to our neighbours and friends. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Give presents to one another, for a present removes rancour from the breast, and a woman should not despise even the gift of half a sheep's trotter from her neighbour."

This is also an occasion when families and close relatives would be expecting our generosity. Even when they are not Muslims, fate has linked us together and we have a duty to fulfil their expectations. It happened that Asma Bint Abu Bakr was expecting her Pagan mother and she was anxious of how to relate with her and if she should give her gifts as expected. She said: “My mother came to me during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger and she was a pagan. I asked Allah's Messenger (seeking his verdict), "My mother has come to me and she desires to receive a reward from me, shall I keep good relations with her?" The Prophet said, ‘Yes, keep good relation with her’.” (Bukhari) Therefore, as families unite in this season of celebration, let us discharge our duties well without fail or offence.

In our celebration, let us not forget that we are Muslims. We are still bounded to the injunctions of Allah about what is halal and what is haram. We do not celebrate with whatever Allah has declared as unlawful (for instance, intoxicants, zina –adultery or fornication, gambling, etc.) In fact, it is a grievous sin to commit an act of disobedience of Allah on an Eid day. It lays to waste our struggles and strivings in Ramadan. It goes to show that we have learnt nothing from the purposes of Ramadan. So celebrate in all ways, but avoid the haram. Remember the shari’ah principle: All good and pure things are halal (permissible) for Muslims, except those which Allah and His Messenger have delineated as haram or makruu (forbidden or disliked respectively).

- Contributed by Shamsideen AbuSuad, UK.

Thursday, 17 September 2009

Day 27: Etiquettes of Giving

"Who is he that will loan to Allah a beautiful loan
which Allah will double unto his credit and multiply it many times?" (Qur'an 2 verse 245)


As we all know the month of Ramadan is a blessed month and unlike all other months the good deeds of man is rewarded in many folds by Allah, hence the need for all Muslims to increase their good deeds so as to avail themselves of the abundant rewards during this month. Charity is one of the important acts highly recommended to us as Muslims. Allah (SWT) said: "The likeness of those who spend their money for Allah's sake, is as the likeness of a grain (of corn), it grows seven ears, every single ear has a hundred grains, and Allah multiplies (increases the reward) for whom He wills, and Allah is All-Sufficient for His creatures needs, All Knower." (Q2:261)

The giving of charity also purifies and increases the blessing in our income. The amount of money we have or earn is not what really matters but what we do with our earnings. Earning and spending are relative to needs. Allah judges you equitable taking account of your efforts within your personal circumstances. Allah (SWT) said, "Whoever works righteousness, whether a male or a female, while he (or she) is a true believer, verily to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do." (Q16:97) The Prophet (PBUH) once said to his companions, "One Dirham could be better in reward than one hundred thousand Dirhams!" A man asked, "And how is that, messenger of Allah?!" He (PBUH) replied, "A wealthy man takes one hundred thousand Dirhams which is one part of his wealth and gives it as a charity, while a poor man who only has two Dirhams pays one of them as a charity."

For the charity to be acceptable as an act of iba'dah (worship) and to reap the full benefit of the reward, there are certain etiquettes to abide by. First, a Muslim is expected to give from a lawful source of earned income. Allah (SWT) says: "O' ye who believe, spend from what you (lawfully) earned" (Q2:267). Secondly, sincere intention is very vital, a Muslim must when giving out charity intend for it to be for the sake of Allah. 'Umar bin Al-Khattab said: I heard Allah's Messenger of Allah saying, "The reward of deeds depends upon the intentions and every person will get the reward according to what he has intended. So whoever emigrated for worldly benefits or for a woman to marry, his emigration was for what he emigrated for." (Bukhari)

Further, it is better and more rewarding to give out of what you love, not your waste. True faith is in giving out what means something to you. Allah (SWT) says: "By no means shall you attain righteousness unless you give (freely as a charity) from that which you love; and whatever you spend Allah knows it well." (Q3:92) When this verse was revealed, a companion called Abu Talha (who owned the greatest wealth of date-palms amongst the Ansar in Medina) was worried. Instantly he choose to give out his most prized possession Bairuha' (his garden) which was situated opposite the Mosque (of the Prophet). On that the Prophet said, "Well Done! It is a profitable property. However, I have heard what you have said, and I recommend that you distribute this amongst your relatives." On that Abu Talha said, "O Allah's Messenger! I will do (as you have suggested)." So, Abu Talha distributed that garden amongst his relatives and cousins. (Bukhari)

Also, charity should be given without any expectation or anticipation that the benefactor would return the favour in future. Don’t even expect a “Thank You.” “And they give food (in spite of their love for it) to the poor, the orphan and the captive. Saying; we feed you seeking Allah's countenance only, we wish for no reward nor thanks from you." (Q76:8-9)

If we truly know the importance of charity, we will seek out recipients even if it means travelling long distance. For instance, whereas what we spend on ourselves (material pleasures) vanishes upon death, what we give in charity goes with us to the Hereafter. The Prophet (PBUH) was reported to have said, "Save yourself from Hell-fire even by giving half a date-fruit in charity." (Bukhari)

Charity given with one hand so that the other hand is unaware is the best. This prevents riya’a (show off). Whoever is discreet with their charity would be amongst those who will be shaded by Allah on the day of Judgement. (Bukhari)

A charitable Muslim should not misuse the privilege Allah have given him or her by taking advantage of the beneficiaries, nor taunt them with a remind them of the charity. Allah (SWT) says: "O you who believe, cancel not your charities by reminders of your generosity, or by harm." (Q2:264)

Sometimes you are suspicious, or simply don’t feel inclined to give in charity or you actually can’t afford to give, then only say a kind word to the needy, do not by any mean hurt their feelings. Allah SWT said, "Kind words and forgiveness are better than a charity followed by injury." (Q2:263)

A man came to the Prophet (PBUH) and asked, "O Messenger of Allah! Which charity is the most superior in reward?" He replied, "The charity which you practice while you are healthy, niggardly and afraid of poverty and wish to become wealthy. Do not delay it to the time of approaching death and then say, 'Give so much to such and such, and so much to such and such.' And it has already belonged to such and such (as it is too late)." (Bukhari)

- Contributed by Abdul-Ghanniy Abu Iman, UK.



Quote of the Day
"You see the believers as regards their being merciful among themselves
and showing love among themselves and being kind, resembling one body,
so that, if any part of the body is not well then the whole body shares the sleeplessness (insomnia) and fever with it." (Bukhari)

Wednesday, 16 September 2009

Day 26: The Glittering Show

We are but travellers in this world; live as though you would live forever and live as though you would die tomorrow. The ahadith are abundant with references of how a believer should not take the life of this world so precariously for granted. If a person arises one morning do not expect to him to live by that same evening and if he is alive one evening do not expect him to live by the next morning. These though are words for men of understanding, to think and reflect upon.


Yet the "glittering show” of the dunya (world) still bedazzles – something so transient can cause such intelligent beings to be so pre-occupied with its whims and fickle fads, despite the many admonitions and destruction of great, if not greater civilisations before it. Men have been given the authority to judge fairly between one another as to what is right and wrong in their conduct. Justly and according to the blueprint of the Qur’an, man has been given a further favour from Allah of empowerment; to architect laws to govern the earth to which we are the caliphs (vicegerents) of, and have superiority over the jinn. “Yet closer and closer to mankind comes their judgement yet they heed not and turn away…” (Qur’an 21:1)

But chaos, disorder, schism, oppression, unjust leaders now rule the lands that once belonged to an ummah who had an empire one and half times the size of the Roman empire; the Islamic empire achieved in 90 years; the Roman empire achieved in 9 centuries. After such achievement, how have we descended to so lowly and vulnerable diminutive community? A diagnosis of the problem was offered by the Qur'an. Discounting other excuses we are want to give, it says, “NAY, but [most of] you love this fleeting life” (Qur’an 75:20). Just in case we are still in doubt about the raison d'entre of our predicament, Allah yet again re-iterate this in words that should shudders the souls of every believer, “Surely these love the transitory and neglect a grievous day before them.” (Qur’an 76:27) That day is the day of resurrection (Qiyamah) – “the rising of the dead” where we will stand to what will seem like countless eons; accounting and testifying against our own souls; measure for measure. “When the earth quakes with her [last] mighty quaking, and [when] the earth yields up her burdens, and man cries out, "What has happened to her?" on that Day will she recount all her tidings, as thy Sustainer will have inspired her to do! On that Day will all men come forward, cut off from one another, to be shown their [past] deeds. And so, he who shall have done an atom's weight of good, shall behold it; and he who shall have done an atom's weight of evil, shall behold it.” (Qur'an 99:1-8)

You were just a child and then you blinked and now here you are; you will blink again and it shall be the last. Time waits for no man and we can never have this time back again in this dunya. How quickly time passes, in its duality both a friend and foe to mankind, depending on which path a man chooses to take in the journey of life. And no man knows in which land he dies or when his last breath shall be.

We all control our own destiny to whether or not we will pass the test of this “glittering show”, though a fleeting existence, the consequences of which however, will echo forever in the hereafter for each and every one of us. “By (the Token of) Time (through the ages)! Verily Man is in loss, except such as have Faith, and do righteous deeds, and (join together) in the mutual teaching of Truth, and of Patience and Constancy.” (Qur'an 103:1-3)

We must recognise this world and its “glittering show” as it truly should be recognised - false glitter and not be so bedazzled following the Shaytan and his anchors down that beaten yet much loved track. Allah (SWT) tells us in the noble Qur'an "Take what is yours in this world AND save your place in the hereafter..." - have the best of both worlds. We must not open our mind too open for the glittering rubbish to be dumped in, or too close to prevent us from learning the responsibility Islam places. We must interact with humanity and seek peace and justice for all humanity, yet we must oppose irresponsibility, injustices and oppression even from fellow Muslims.

We must respect and recognise people who sincerely strive for the progress of humanity and know that those singers, actors, playwrights, leaders, who symbolises the false “the false glitters” will not live for a 1000 years, but one day be buried in their graves – helpless and hopeless. The people of Aad and Thamud (ancient civilisations mentioned in Al Qur'an) built "towers in the sky" yet were utterly destroyed with no trace. So what are you really giving importance to?

Beware! The false glitter of people who tirelessly chase their own agendas and use others as a conduit and then make out they are doing you a favour, all in the pursuit of their own quest for fame, acceptance, popularity and "love". For those who DON'T chase the false glitter its easy for them to have all the fame that others crave for. Egos are not massaged by words of grandeur but acts of goodness and real genuineness.

"EVERY SOUL SHALL TASTE DEATH....".....that is one thing guaranteed. For those of you that read and reflect on the Qur'an will know this statement well.

- Contributed by Ms K. Khan, UK.

Tuesday, 15 September 2009

Day 25: Touchstone of Faith

There are men who go astray in three ways. One is to leave aside the law of God and become slave of corporal desires. The second is to give preference to family customs and ways of life of forefathers over the law of God. The third is to ignore the system enunciated by God and His messenger and follow the ways of fellow-beings who either are big personalities of their own nation or dominant nations of the world.

Real definition of a Muslim
The real definition of a Muslim is that he should be immune from these three ailments. That person alone is a Muslim who sincerely believes that the teaching of God and His messenger is Absolute Truth, and that whatever is against it is false, and that whatever is good for man in this world and in the Hereafter is all contained in the teaching of God and His messenger. One who has complete faith in these verities always seeks guidance at every step in his life from the relevant injunction of God and His messenger, and on knowing the injunction submits to it. Having done that, he will never bother if his mind felt uneasy about it, or his family members upbraided him, or the worldly type of people opposed him, because in each case he will clearly reply: "I am God's slave not yours; I have affirmed faith in His messenger, not in you."

1. Servitude of ' Self '
If, contrary to this, a person says: "May this be the injunction of God and His messenger, my mind does not accept it because I consider it harmful. So I shall put aside the directions of God and His messenger and act according to my own opinion". Obviously the heart of such a person is bereft of faith. He is not a Mu’min but a hypocrite because while he verbally asserts that he is a servant of God and a follower of His messenger, in reality he is a slave of his own self and a follower of his own opinion.

2. Adherence to custom
Similarly, if a person says that whatever may be the injunctions of God and His Prophet, how can a certain custom be given up when it is practised from his forefather's time or how can a usage be discontinued which has been in vogue for long in his family and kith and kin. Such a person too will be reckoned among the hypocrites, though he might have grown on his forehead any size of knob due to profuse prostration in endless prayers and might have made his face very religious looking because the actual reality of Deen has not permeated his heart. Deen does not consist of Ruku’, Sajdah, Fasting and Hajj nor is it found in the face and dress of a man. In fact, Deen means obedience to God and His messenger. One who refuses to obey God and His messenger in conducting his affairs, his heart is in reality devoid of Deen. His Salaah, his fasting and his religious appearance is nothing but a fraud.

3. Imitation of other nations
Similarly if a person, not caring for the Book of God and His messenger's directions, urges that certain custom be adopted because it is prevalent among Englishmen, and a particular thing be accepted because another nation is making progress because of it, and a certain point be conceded because a big person is advocating it, then such a person should guard himself against losing his faith. This type of talk is irreconcilable to Iman. If you are a Muslim and want to remain a Muslim, then throw overboard every suggestion which is contrary to the injunctions of God and His messenger. Should you be unable to do this, it does not behove you to claim adherence to Islam. To assert verbally that you believe in God and His messenger but to set aside their injunctions in the affairs of your life in favour of other people's dictum, is neither Iman nor Islam. In fact it is downright hypocrisy. Allah has clearly stated in the twenty-fourth chapter of the Qur'an:- "Verily We have sent down revelations and explained them. Allah guideth whom He will unto a straight path. And they say: We believe in Allah and the messenger and we obey, then after that a faction of them turn away. Such are not believers. And when they appeal unto Allah and His messenger to judge between them. Lo! a faction of them are averse. But if right had been with them they would have come unto him willingly. Is there in their hearts a disease or have they doubts, or fear they lest Allah and His messenger should wrong them in judgment. Nay, but such are evil doers. The saying of (all true) believers, when they appeal unto Allah and His messenger to judge between them is only that they say: We hear and we obey. And such are the fortunate. He who obeyeth Allah and His messenger, and feareth Allah and keepeth duty (unto Him): such indeed are the successful." (24:46-52)

Ponder over the definition of Iman set forth in the above verses. Real Iman consists in dedicating oneself to the Book of God and directions of His messenger. Whatever order is received from there, must be implicitly obeyed and nothing against it should be listened to, may it come from one's own mind or from the family members or from the worldly people. Only that person is Mu’min and Muslim who develops this state of mind. And whoever is devoid of it is not more than a hypocrite.

- Culled from Let Us Be Muslims –by Imam Maududi.

Monday, 14 September 2009

Day 24: From Persia with Passion

I grew up in the town of Isfahan in Persia in the village of Jayyan. My father was the Dihqan or chief of the village. He was the richest person there and had the biggest house.

Since I was a child my father loved me, more than he loved any other. As time went by his love for me became so strong and overpowering that he feared to lose me or have anything happen to me. So he kept me at home, a veritable prisoner, in the same way that young girls were kept.

I became devoted to the Magian religion so much so that I attained the position of custodian of the fire which we worshipped. My duty was to see that the flames of the fire remained burning and that it did not go out for a single hour, day or night.

My father had a vast estate which yielded an abundant supply of crops. He himself looked after the estate and the harvest. One day he was very busy with his duties as dihqan in the village and he said to me:

"My son, as you see, I am too busy to go out to the estate now. Go and look after matters there for me today."

On my way to the estate, I passed a Christian Church and the voices at prayer attracted my attention. I did not know anything about Christianity or about the followers of any other religion throughout the time my father kept me in the house away from people. When I heard the voices of the Christians I entered the church to see what they were doing. I was impressed by their manner of praying and felt drawn to their religion. "By God," I said, "this is better than ours. I shall not leave them until the sun sets."

I asked and was told that the Christian religion originated in Ash-Sham (Greater Syria). I did not go to my father's estate that day and at night, I returned home. My father met me and asked what I had done. I told him about my meeting with the Christians and how I was impressed by their religion. He was dismayed and said:

"My son, there is nothing good in that religion. Your religion and the religion of your forefathers is better."

"No, their religion is better than ours," I insisted.

My father became upset and afraid that I would leave our religion. So he kept me locked up in the house and put a chain on my feet. I managed however to send a message to the Christians asking them to inform me of any caravan going to Syria. Before long they got in touch with me and told me that a caravan was headed for Syria. I managed to unfetter myself and in disguise accompanied the caravan to Syria. There, I asked who was the leading person in the Christian religion and was directed to the bishop of the church. I went up to him and said:

"I want to become a Christian and would like to attach myself to your service, learn from you and pray with you."

The bishop agreed and I entered the church in his service. I soon found out, however, that the man was corrupt. He would order his followers to give money in charity while holding out the promise of blessings to them. When they gave anything to spend in the way of God, however, he would hoard it for himself and not give anything to the poor or needy. In this way he amassed a vast quantity of gold. When the bishop died and the Christians gathered to bury him, I told them of his corrupt practices and, at their request, showed them where he kept their donations. When they saw the large jars filled with gold and silver they said.

"By God, we shall not bury him." They nailed him on a cross and threw stones at him. I continued in the service of the person who replaced him. The new bishop was an ascetic who longed for the Hereafter and engaged in worship day and night. I was greatly devoted to him and spent a long time in his company.

After his death, Salman attached himself to various Christian religious figures, in Mosul, Nisibis and elsewhere. The last one had told him about the appearance of a Prophet in the land of the Arabs who would have a reputation for strict honesty, one who would accept a gift but would never consume charity (sadaqah) for himself. Salman continues his story.

A group of Arab leaders from the Kalb tribe passed through Ammuriyah and I asked them to take me with them to the land of the Arabs in return for whatever money I had. They agreed and I paid them. When we reached Wadi al-Qura (a place between Madinah and Syria), they broke their agreement and sold me to a Jew. I worked as a servant for him but eventually he sold me to a nephew of his belonging to the tribe of Banu Qurayzah. This nephew took me with him to Yathrib, the city of palm groves, which is how the Christian at Ammuriyah had described it.

At that time the Prophet was inviting his people in Makkah to Islam but I did not hear anything about him then because of the harsh duties which slavery imposed upon me.

When the Prophet reached Yathrib after his hijrah from Makkah, I was in fact at the top of a palm tree belonging to my master doing some work. My master was sitting under the tree. A nephew of his came up and said:

"May God declare war on the Aws and the Khazraj (the two main Arab tribes of Yathrib). By God, they are now gathering at Quba to meet a man who has today come from Makkah and who claims he is a Prophet."

I felt hot flushes as soon as I heard these words and I began to shiver so violently that I was afraid that I might fall on my master. I quickly got down from the tree and spoke to my master's nephew.

"What did you say? Repeat the news for me."

My master was very angry and gave me a terrible blow. "What does this matter to you'? Go back to what you were doing," he shouted.

That evening, I took some dates that I had gathered and went to the place where the Prophet had alighted. I went up to him and said:

"I have heard that you are a righteous man and that you have companions with you who are strangers and are in need. Here is something from me as sadaqah. I see that you are more deserving of it than others."

The Prophet ordered his companions to eat but he himself did not eat of it. I gathered some more dates and when the Prophet left Quba for Madinah I went to him and said: "I noticed that you did not eat of the sadaqah I gave. This however is a gift for you." Of this gift of dates, both he and his companions ate.

The strict honesty of the Prophet was one of the characteristics that led Salman to believe in him and accept Islam .

Salman was released from slavery by the Prophet who paid his Jewish slave-owner a stipulated price and who himself planted an agreed number of date palms to secure his manumission. After accepting Islam, Salman would say when asked whose son he was:

"I am Salman, the son of Islam from the children of Adam."

Salman was to play an important role in the struggles of the growing Muslim state. At the battle of Khandaq, he proved to be an innovator in military strategy. He suggested digging a ditch or khandaq around Madinah to keep the Quraysh army at bay. When Abu Sufyan, the leader of the Makkans, saw the ditch, he said, "This stratagem has never been employed by the Arabs before."

Salman became known as "Salman the Good". He was a scholar who lived a rough and ascetic life. He had one cloak which he wore and on which he slept. He would not seek the shelter of a roof but stayed under a tree or against a wall. A man once said to him:

"Shall I not build you a house in which to live?"

"I have no need of a house," he replied.

The man persisted and said, "I know the type of house that would suit you."

"Describe it to me," said Salman.

"I shall build you a house which if you stand up in it, its roof will hurt your head and if you stretch your legs the wall will hurt them."

Later, as a governor of al-Madain (Ctesiphon) near Baghdad, Salman received a stipend of five thousand dirhams. This he would distribute as sadaqah. He lived from the work of his own hands. When some people came to Madain and saw him working in the palm groves, they said, "You are the Amir (Leader) here and your sustenance is guaranteed and you do this work!"

"I like to eat from the work of my own hands," he replied. Salman however was not extreme in his asceticism. It is related that he once visited Abu ad-Dardaa with whom the Prophet had joined him in brotherhood. He found Abu ad-Dardaas wife in a miserable state and he asked, "What is the matter with you."

"Your brother has no need of anything in this world," she replied.

When Abu ad-Dardaa came, he welcomed Salman and gave him food. Salman told him to eat but Abu ad-Dardaa said, "I am fasting."

"I swear to you that I shall not eat until you eat also."

Salman spent the night there as well. During the night, Abu ad-Dardaa got up but Salman got hold of him and said:

"O Abu ad-Dardaa, your Lord has a right over you. Your family has a right over you and your body has a right over you. Give to each its due."

In the morning, they prayed together and then went out to meet the Prophet, peace be upon him. The Prophet supported Salman in what he had said.

As a scholar, Salman was noted for his vast knowledge and wisdom. Ali said of him that he was like Luqman the Wise. And Kab al-Ahbar said: "Salman is stuffed with knowledge and wisdom--an ocean that does not dry up." Salman had a knowledge of both the Christian scriptures and the Quran in addition to his earlier knowledge of the Zoroastrian religion. Salman in fact translated parts of the Quran into Persian during the life-time of the Prophet. He was thus the first person to translate the Quran into a foreign language.

Salman, because of the influential household in which he grew up, might easily have been a major figure in the sprawling Persian Empire of his time. His search for truth however led him, even before the Prophet had appeared, to renounce a comfortable and affluent life and even to suffer the indignities of slavery. According to the most reliable account, he died in the year thirty five after the hijrah, during the caliphate of Uthman, at Ctesiphon.

This is a story of a seeker of Truth, the story of Salman the Persian.

(Source: Biographies of Companions, Alim 8 Software)

Sunday, 13 September 2009

Day 23: What is the Purpose of Your Life?

Everyone is created individually, with unique disposition, desires and destiny. Allah made us so. The option of Freewill demands individual differentiations and directions in life. Therefore it is important for everyone to excavate a sincere response from within themselves to the question: What do I really want in life, what do I aspire for in life? Then to seek the answer to the important question: What is my Creator's purpose for me on this Earth? The ultimate task thereafter is to plan to marry both answers together. In other words, achieve God's purpose and fulfil your halal (permissible) personal desires.

Personal wishes in life could be as divergent as far wide as possible and to unimaginable extents. It may be materialistic or non materialistic. While some may desire wealth, others may want to acquire power, or be a household-name through entertainment or innovation or academics; or transform lives, reform societies, preserve the environment, be superb, be ordinary, be influential, be admired etc. Many would just want to be successful, but they will need to define success within the context of what will really makes them happy or gives them peace of mind, tranquillity or fulfilment. But God's reason for sending us here is simple and universal: "I created the jinn and humankind only that they may worship Me." (Qur'an 51 verse 56)

Many people believe though that the pursuit of their personal desires and aspirations is hindered by worship. For instance, worship would imply constant interruption of daily activities to perform Salaat five time in a day, abstinence from foods, drinks, and intimacy in the days of a whole month (Ramadan), sharing with the poor and needy 2.5% of their saving if it is over a particular mark (nisab) for a year, embarking on pilgrimage to Makkah and finally, attesting to the Kalima (that none is worthy of worship, but only Allah alone) verbally, in the heart and actions. In short, a life of worship is incongruent to the pursuit of personal desires.

What is worship within the context of life purpose? Worship is all righteous good deeds which earn reward from Allah, not just the rituals listed above. A life of worship is a life lived with the utmost consciousness of God. It is obedience of Allah. It is possible to worship Allah through the work that you do every day. Islam expects us to serve our employer sincerely and put in enough work for the pay we earn. It expects the employer to be fair and considerate to his/her staff. Our positive attitude to people we meet every day is an act of worship, so much so that even “a smile is charity” and Allah rewards every acts of charity. Kind words, good behaviour, honesty, truthfulness, and every act promoting the well-being of Allah’s creation and creatures (including living and non-living things) are regarded as actions leading to the fulfilment of Allah’s purpose on earth. Caution though, these actions would only be accepted if the compulsory acts of worship like Salaat, Fasting, Zakaat and Hajj are intact. These compulsory acts of worship are the foundations upon which other righteous good deeds are built.

In essence, if we only attain our personal desired in this world without fulfilling Allah’s purpose for creating us, then we would become a Successful Failure. What is the point of a life well lived but lived the wrong way? It is like an perfect painter, but always painting the wrong colours in the wrong room. Or like a great pilot, who always fly in the wrong direction. How laudable is the sound of an empty success? It’s like an intelligent or achieving child, who has no regards for his father. Yes, you are fulfilled, but you disobeyed your Creator. What is great about a life which will end up eternally in Hell? Those who enjoyed life so much that they forget their true purpose on earth will be reminded but it could be too late by then. “...And hell is brought near that day; on that day man will remember, but how will the remembrance (then avail him)?” (Qur'an 89 verse 23)

The Final End is important and should be remembered at the very beginning and throughout life’s journey. Where will I end up eventually? Life is not eternal, it will end, but in what condition. Those who achieve life’s purpose will be at peace with their Creator. “...But ah! thou soul at peace! Return unto thy Lord, content in His good pleasure! "Enter thou then among my Devotees! Enter thou My Garden (in Paradise)!” (Qur'an 89 verses 27-30)

- Contributed by Shamsideen AbuSuad, UK.

Saturday, 12 September 2009

Day 22: The Benefiting Withdrawal

"Celebrate the praises of Allah during the Appointed Days
but if anyone hastens to leave in two days there is no blame on him and
 if anyone stays on there is no blame on him if his aim is to do right.
Then fear Allah and know that you will surely be gathered unto Him." [Qur'an 2:203]


An important aspect of Ramadan is now upon us. The last ten days is more important than the previous 20 days. This is because the last ten days is when acts of iba’dah (worship) are intensified. This is to the extent that this period is spent by many in seclusion, a practice termed I’tikaf. Seclusion in the mosque (I’tikaf) in the last ten days of Ramadan is the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him). It was the practice of the Prophet to perform I’tikaf till he passed away. I’tikaf helps to enhance one's spiritual growth and to strive hard to worship Allah better as there is nothing to distract one's attention from this noble pursuit. I’tikaf can only be observed in the mosque preferably a Jumuah Mosque (where Friday Congregational Prayer is made).

I’tikaf is of two types the Sunnah and obligatory. The Sunnah I’tikaf is that which the Muslim performs to get closer to Allah by following the actions of the Prophet (peace be upon him), especially during the last ten days of Ramadan. The obligatory I'tikaf is that which the person makes obligatory upon himself. This may be done, for example, by an oath “By Allah! I must make I'tikaf” or by a conditional oath “If Allah cures me (or grants my request), I shall make I'tikaf...” In a hadith it is reported that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “Whoever makes an oath to obey Allah should be obedient to Him.” 'Umar (RA) said “O Messenger of Allah, I made an oath to perform I'tikaf one night in the mosque at Makkah.” The Prophet (peace be upon him), said: "Fulfil your oath." (Bukhari)

The person who performs I'tikaf must be a Muslim adult, a discerning child who is free of sexual defilement, or an adolescent who is free of menstrual or childbirth bleeding. I'tikaf is not acceptable from an unbeliever, a non-discerning child, a sexually defiled person, and a menstruating woman with post-childbirth bleeding. It is preferred for the one who is making I'tikaf to perform many supererogatory acts of worship and to occupy himself with prayers, reciting the Qur'an, glorifying and praising Allah, extolling His oneness and His greatness, asking His forgiveness, sending salutations on the Prophet (peace be upon him), and supplicating to Allah. Included among these actions is studying and reading books of tafseer and Hadith.

It is disliked for one to engage in affairs that do not concern him. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “Part of a man's good observance of Islam is that he leave alone that which does not concern him.” It is, however, disliked for a person to think that he can draw closer to Allah by not speaking, the Prophet (peace be upon him) was delivering a speech, he saw a man standing and asked about him. The people said, “He is Abu Israel. He has vowed to stand and not to sit, and not to speak, and to fast.” The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “Order him to speak, go to the shade, to sit, and to complete his fast.” (Bukhari)

Certain acts are not permitted when one is performing I'tikaf, these act if done would nullify the I'tikaf. Intentionally leaving the mosque without any need to do so nullifies the I’tikaf, even if it is for just a short time. In such a case, one would not be staying in the mosque, which is one of the principles of I'tikaf. Further, abandoning belief in Islam, also nullifies the I’tikaf just as it does all acts of worship. Whoever ascribes partner to Allah, his deeds are lost and he will be among the losers. Losing one's reasoning due to insanity or drunkenness, or the onset of menstruation or post-childbirth bleeding, sexual intercourse, etc all disqualifies a person for I’tikaf. Allah says, “But touch them not (that is, your wives) and be at your devotions in the mosque.”

Also when in I’tikaf, it is recommended that the voice should not be raised such that it disturbs others, once the Prophet (peace be upon him) was in I’tikaf in the mosque and he heard the people reciting aloud. He removed the covering and said, “Verily, each of you is in a private conversation with his Lord so you should not disturb each other. And you are not to raise your voices against each other in the recitation.” (Bukhari)

It is agreed that the one who performs I’tikaf may leave the mosque in order to answer the call of nature, for this is something that he personally must perform, and he cannot do it in the mosque. Also, if he needs to eat or drink and there is no one to bring him his food, he may leave to get it. If one needs to vomit, he may leave the mosque to do so. For anything that he must do but cannot do in the mosque, he can leave it, and such acts will not void his I’tikaf, even if they take a long time.

- Contributed by Shamsideen Abu Suad, UK.


A Point to Ponder
"With the start of the last ten days of Ramadan,
the Prophet used to tighten his waist belt (i.e. work hard)
and used to pray all the night, and used to keep his family awake for the prayers." (Bukhari)